Ten mistakes in communicating with girls.
Mistake 1: Too “cute guy”.
Have you ever noticed that really attractive women aren’t attracted to “cute” guys? Of course, I noticed. I’m sure you have some charming friends who date “scumbags” … but for some unknown reason, these girls have never been interested in YOU. Why is this happening? In fact, everything is simple…
When choosing a partner, girls are not guided by how “cute” a man is. Attraction to masculine guys is born on an instinctive level. If you are at least a hundred times nicer than your opponent, a woman simply WILL NOT FEEL ATTRACTED to you and, accordingly, will not choose you. I admit, this may sound pointless, but you should just believe and accept my words… Unless you’re ready to give up success with desirable girls forever.
Mistake 2: Don’t try to make her like you.
What do guys usually do when they meet the girl of their dreams… and she doesn’t even look at them? Right! They try to “convince” the girl to feel differently. Try to remember… YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE A GIRL’S FEELINGS WHEN IT COMES TO LIKING! Understand, NEVER. It is impossible to make a girl feel-neither by logic, nor by rational reasoning. Think about it.
If she just doesn’t feel anything for you, how are you going to convince her to think logically? However, everyone tries to do so. We beg, we pursue, we try to influence the minds of girls… This will never work.
Mistake 3. Don’t expect a girl to approve every time.
In their desire to make a girl pleasant (thinking that this way she will like us), men very often make this mistake. Women don’t like guys who suck up all the time! But don’t get me wrong. You can’t treat girls badly. It should only be understood that the constant expectation of permission to act, does not contribute to a good mood of the fair sex. On the contrary, women are often annoyed by this behavior. Do you doubt it? So ask any attractive girl about it.
Mistake 4: You should not try to ” buy ” its location.
Remember how many times you’ve been rejected, despite a candlelit dinner, expensive gifts, and flowers? I dare say more than once. You know, it’s only NATURAL. That’s right, you heard right. It’s like you’re letting a girl know “ ” I don’t think you like me the way I am, so I’ll try to buy your attention and sympathy.” Even your good intentions can turn against you – a woman will think that you are trying to MANIPULATE her.
Mistake 5: Don’t share your feelings with her ahead of time.
Unfortunately, this mistake is made by most of the stronger sex. Remember, really attractive women are rare. And each of them gets a HUGE amount of male attention. Often guys do not understand this, but they try to get acquainted with such girls all the time-several times a day they flow into dozens a week and (oh, horror) into HUNDREDS a month.
You know what? Girls go on dates with many sufferers. They already have EXPERIENCE. They know exactly what to expect. And some things make these poor babies run away from the guy in fear – for example, the phrase ” You know, I REALLY, REALLY like you!”. She understands one thing – that you are one of many, just like the others. Don’t repeat other people’s mistakes. Act relaxed, with dignity.
Mistake 6: Not understanding what attracts women.
In some ways, women are very different from us men. You should just accept that fact.
What happens when a guy sees a young, beautiful, sexy girl? That’s right, he’s attracted to her. Is such a condition true for the fair sex? Does the appearance of a man have the same power over the female consciousness? Or is there another factor?
Having spent almost five years studying this topic, I can confidently say that usually a woman reacts to criteria that are not related to appearance. I am convinced that you have paid attention to seemingly unremarkable, even unattractive men with charming companions. Think about it.
Women are attracted to certain qualities in a partner… it is important to them that they FEEL when they are near this person. With a masterful use of body language and proper communication skills, you can make a woman feel sexual desire, similar to what you feel when you see a hot young beauty. But it is impossible to master this art spontaneously. It should take a long time to LEARN. And ANY guy can learn…
Mistake 7: It’s not just about money and looks.
One of the most common errors… Guys believe that women are only interested in the size of the purse and stunning appearance… maybe even a certain age or height. I am absolutely sure that there are girls in the world with such criteria. However, the reasonable majority is concerned, first of all, not with the wallet and appearance, but with the identity of the partner. That’s what attracts them, like a magnet.
Learn to identify the personality traits that are valuable to a particular girl, and YOU will become their ideal. DON’T GIVE UP if you’re not an oligarch or short. Let me repeat my earlier point: with a masterful use of body language and proper communication skills, you can make a woman feel sexual desire similar to what you feel when you see a hot young beauty.
Mistake 8. Don’t put all the power in a woman’s hands.
I have already mentioned that you should not expect a girl to give permission for this or that action. In the same way, you can not indulge them in all their desires. A guy constantly does what a girl wants-it’s a mistake. She will step over you and go to meet new adventures. Remember, girls don’t like weaklings.
Mistake 9: Not knowing the options for your behavior when communicating with a girl.
Do you want me to surprise you? A woman ALWAYS knows what you’re thinking. The fair sex has about TEN TIMES better understanding of body language. I know it’s hard to believe.
Well, for example, if you want to kiss a girl on a date, she already knows about it. And if you don’t know EXACTLY HOW to do it, sit next to her and get nervous, she won’t help you!
This idea is true for all aspects of relationships with women. Getting to know her, getting a phone number, asking her out, making physical contact… Yes, everything!
Everything will be ruined, everything will be LOST, if in each specific situation, you do not have a clear plan of action. AND you KNOW that. It is vital to be aware of every step in the establishment and development of relationships-from dating to the bedroom.
Mistake 10: Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
Perhaps the biggest mistake. It often does not allow guys to achieve success with the desired girls. I know, I know, we don’t like to look weak and helpless. We hate asking anyone for help.
I want to tell you a little bit about myself and how I became successful with women… about five years ago, I was already fed up with the fact that I could not get to know girls properly, let alone ask them out on a date. I can honestly say that it depressed me terribly.
One evening, a friend and I went out to a club, and there I saw HER… But I was so nervous that I just couldn’t get close. I still remember that night… It was then that I made the decision that I would use ALL my abilities, try everything, but achieve results.
After a huge amount of effort and hard work, I finally did it. Now I do not experience any problems – for example, I get a phone almost immediately after the approach. I had dates with models, actresses, and simple sweet girls.
Never again did I feel that sense of insecurity, of insecurity. I can meet a great girl at any time.