A conversation with a girl on a dating site?
I have a friend for two years hanging on the site in Mamba. I absolutely agree that banal questions irritate and raise doubts about a man’s intelligence. Well, how can you write to a strange girl: “Hi, how are you, what are you doing?” It is more suitable for familiar people when you are aware of the person’s affairs. My girlfriend is angry, to the question “how are you”, she answers “great”, to the question “what are you doing”, she answers “I drink tea”. Or something like that. It is especially interesting when after such a “dialogue” from this smart guy the next day comes the question: “hi, how are you, what’s new?” A person does not even know the old, and tell him about the new! Men who ask such questions, think for yourself, what can you answer it?
you need to write something reasonable, for example, ” I came in, read your profile, I see that we have a lot in common, maybe we can talk?”
It is quite easy to meet a girl on a dating site, if you approach the moment of dating correctly. if a short hello, then think for yourself how many such greetings can come to a girl in a day. And she’s in a bad mood and just wants to flirt. So start with a phrase that will bring the girl to positive emotions, she should feel that she really, really likes it, that she was admired so much that she already belongs to the guy. Then the girl will send a question sentence and here the correspondence begins. Immediately, you do not need to communicate for a long time and a lot, you need to feel when the conversation runs out a little, and it is better to immediately take decisive action.
My advice to you is not to ask about your income, where you work, what you do. In general, at first there are fewer questions that can be regarded as if she is under interrogation. This is very repulsive. Ask, for example, if she likes peaches.? Try to have a heart-to-heart conversation. About what you could not say to a strange girl walking down the street. And if you talk to a kindred spirit, then everything will work out.
You need to make sure from the comments that the girl is there, not an empty account with a questionnaire picked up somewhere. Then, when they are “online”, ask an unobtrusive question and wait for it to be answered. To speed up the process, you send the same question to 50-100 girls at the beginning and wait for someone to answer it, with a high probability of 3-5 answers. The question can be used from the suggested ones when filling out the questionnaire, not everyone remembers that they were once answered when filling out the questionnaire. Well, then gradually discard those that you did not like during the correspondence. At the end, there are a few girls, whom you take turns inviting, for example, to skate (this is not so expensive and practical). Well, then you’ll figure it out yourself. In no case do not give them VIP-accounts, generally refrain from any electronic cards and so on..