How do I start a conversation with a stranger?

“I still feel dizzy after doing yoga in the hammocks!” – I go to the sauna and immediately start talking to a girl. It seems that she was in a group class, but this is not accurate) There are two options: she will be surprised and start asking what it is, or share fresh impressions from the lesson. The second thing happens.

• No habit. This is the one: Here Vera writes about networking, here is this moment, now I will talk. what if. – and there were excuses. As a result, the moment goes away and the moustache. Disappointment) What to do? Used to.you can start a conversation right away! Here we went and immediately: \”How hot is it here\”, \”Oh, how long have you been here? How much do you recommend to sit in the sauna?\ “and many more options to start a conversation in the sauna, since I’m talking about it today)))
• You read the mood of a stranger as \”I don’t want to talk\”. Yes, often people do not understand with what stern faces they go) So I completely stopped guessing by the face – it’s just a habit of being a buka. Practice shows-it is only necessary to turn and the expression of the face changes. So sort it out in the course of communication.
• Fear of awkwardness and silence. When there is still little experience of such conversations (up to 100 acquaintances), the most difficult ones are at the beginning – it seems that we are distracting, talking nonsense, something is going wrong. With experience, it becomes clear: you need to relax and enjoy the conversation, ask questions and LISTEN) Silence is normal.
  Meanwhile, we have been talking for 25 minutes in the sauna with my new friend. Immediately found the intersection points. She tells us how useful the IR sauna is. – Wow, how good that you came! I thought I couldn’t stand it, and it was so easy to wait for the conversation! – she smiles, pleased.
  Only practice helps to develop a communication skill. You will be able to communicate in any situation and will never be without friends 😉
  What prevents you from starting a conversation with a stranger?
• No habit. This is the one: Here Vera writes about networking, here is this moment, now I will talk. what if. – and there were excuses. As a result, the moment goes away and the moustache. Disappointment) What to do? Used to.you can start a conversation right away! Here we went and immediately: “How hot is it here”, ” Oh, have you been here for a long time? How much do you recommend to sit in the sauna?” and there are many more options to start chatting in the sauna, since I’m talking about it today)))
• You read the mood of a stranger as “I don’t want to talk”. Yes, often people do not understand with what severe faces they go) So I completely stopped guessing by the face – it’s just a habit of being a buka. Practice shows-it is only necessary to turn and the expression of the face changes. So sort it out in the course of communication.
• Fear of awkwardness and silence. When there is still little experience of such conversations (up to 100 acquaintances), the most difficult ones are at the beginning – it seems that we are distracting, talking nonsense, something is going wrong. With experience, it becomes clear: you need to relax and enjoy the conversation, ask questions and LISTEN) Silence is normal.
  Meanwhile, we have been talking for 25 minutes in the sauna with my new friend. Immediately found the intersection points. She tells us how useful the IR sauna is. – Wow, how good that you came! I thought I couldn’t stand it, and it was so easy to wait for the conversation! – she smiles, pleased.
  Only practice helps to develop a communication skill. You will be able to communicate in any situation and will never be without friends 😉