Make a girl fall in love with you.
Many men perform feats to please a beautiful stranger. Is it true that she needs so much?
Maybe it’s simple? You only need to know one secret. Every girl has it. The solution of this little mystery makes every unapproachable young lady as meek as a lamb, which itself becomes interested in a caring shepherd. I wonder how to do it?
Thousands of young people are learning the right phrases for dating, which should attract the attention of the chosen one, and interest her.
Only these useful phrases are not always remembered in time and in place, moreover, excitement mixes all the words, sometimes it turns out funny.
For example, at one of the psychological trainings, there is a task – approaching a girl, without stopping to say compliments to her.
The young man decided to praise the really slender legs of his partner. He went to her and told her how long and beautiful they were, how slim and sexy, but in the middle of the way, the words ran out, and he had to go and talk.
Memorized “correct” phrases popped up in my head. And after all the compliments about the slimness of the girl’s legs, the young man gave out:”. And it must be so hard to shave them.” It is good that there is an atmosphere of joyful learning at the training, you can make mistakes, but on the street for such compliments there is a chance to get a handbag on the head , and given that now women’s handbags resemble small backpacks, this phrase may be the last one that a young man will say when trying to get acquainted.
And how to say a little, but exactly what you need? So that the girl herself begins to show interest?
I have the answer. The result is verified by life, the main thing is not to use this method with many young ladies, otherwise you can burst from an avalanche of interest from the fair sex.
But first, I will share a little secret of all women: they CAN NOT HELP BUT LOVE and want men.
Every girl has her own fairy tales about what a love relationship should be. These fairy tales are embedded in the mind since childhood.
Literature, movies, TV series, stories of friends-this is the source of love beliefs. Why are these fairy tales?
Because they are poorly combined with reality, the magic princess and the prince on a white horse are not characters from life, but you want to believe in them so much. In other words, even if there is no prince yet, the girl will still love the imaginary one.
This process never stops completely, sometimes it is sluggish, and sometimes-so much I want a big and bright love that I am ready to roll mountains, well, or throw a tantrum and cry.
Men don’t have to do anything special. Feats are unnecessary.
Simply, knowing this secret, it is necessary to start or activate the process of experiencing a love story in the girl’s mind. Be sure, she herself will dream up a hundred times more about possible romantic relationships than you can tell her.
All you have to do is pull the trigger. How? Simple as that.
If you are not familiar with your chosen one yet-well, then you did not have time to spoil anything. Try the following.
As you pass by, stop, look deeply into your eyes, and say, ” You have beautiful eyes.”
All. Go about your business, just look around and give a smile, like, there will be a continuation.
Here is a possible stream of consciousness that will start in the head of the owner of ” beautiful eyes»:
-“What did he want? I wonder if it will still fit? He probably likes me, ” etc.
Don’t come near her again and don’t notice her at all for a couple of days.
After that, buy a modest, but cute bouquet of flowers, and, better in front of friends, passing by-give it to them! The words can be different, for example: “The most beautiful girl in the world” or “You are amazingly beautiful”.
Then the same thing, go about your business, but do not quickly turn around, look around again and smile, because she already knows-you will return. And here it is not.
Disappear for a week, or just ignore it. It happens that at this stage the young lady begins to make attempts to get acquainted herself. It’s just that in a week she’s already made up so much in her head, fantasizing that she herself is interested in what’s next. The most impatient – they can’t wait, they need answers, so they try to get acquainted.
If this happens-do not break down, get acquainted. If not, we continue.
You are no longer an outsider, but almost a native, the one who sits in the head and participates in its fantasies.
What she thinks about today, she will definitely do tomorrow. You will help.
Feel free to approach, you can again with flowers, and tell: “You are the most charming and beautiful girl, so I can not pass by (give flowers), but I am very modest, I have not even met until now…” If after such words she does not begin to get acquainted herself, then say the following: “I have an interesting suggestion… “(pause…), wait for the question, it will definitely be, and as soon as she is interested, tell her-not now, I have to go, they call me to the Kremlin (joke), and with a sad smile of parting – leave.
Give him three more days, and let him dream of an interesting offer. Be sure – it will go through all possible options, even if you actually did not have any offer at all. At the next meeting, you can agree on anything, it is ready, at least the interest is already formed, fantasies are launched, fairy tales are relived, the body craves romance.
I do not recommend dragging out such a game for a long time .
Fairy tales are activated quickly, experiences and fantasies need to be maintained, but there is a danger of becoming a ghost that appears out of nowhere, gives bright romantic moments and disappears. Can you get used to the fact that there will be no real communication, and you need it?
In fact, there are not so many fairy tales about love among girls.
Here are some of the most typical ones, which can easily be integrated in the above way as the main character.
• “Financial”. He comes and saves her from the dreary everyday life. On a large and beautiful car takes you from a quiet and gray town to a big city (country). With him, it is always fun, calm, confident, there are no money problems, you can buy anything you want. Things change every day, only in the latest fashion. It is not necessary to work, it works, its task is to spend.
• “Soulful”. He is calm, confident, beautiful, wise. He knows how to calm you down. Says beautiful words, words of love, supports mentally in a difficult situation, with him warm and calm. Understands and accepts, experiences and various difficult feelings. Does not pay attention to tantrums, always ready to support, help.
- “Psychotherapeutic”. My parents are tired, my friends are bastards, my friends are bitches, no one understands me. And then he appears. Kind, sensitive, intelligent. He knows how to listen, looks with understanding eyes, he is the one who wants to tell everything! He gives me flowers in front of everyone, everyone is jealous and goes to hang themselves out of anger.
• “Family”. He loves children, is reliable, looks only at me, and other women just make him sick, so he is loyal. He wants a family, earns well and does not know how to spend money, is ready to bring everything to his wife, give every penny to the family, because he believes that family and children are the main thing. He already has a large apartment and a children’s room, it remains only to give birth to someone there.
Of course, it is useful to find out which combination of the above fairy tales is relevant for a particular girl. But that’s later.