Invite a girl to date.
Imagine. You talk to a girl, and you like her. At a certain point, you realize that you want a relationship with her. However, for this relationship to begin, some kind of starting point is required. You should invite the girl to meet .
But how to do it correctly and beautifully? After all, you have repeatedly witnessed, and perhaps already learned from your own experience, that at this moment girls often merge and the guy is left with nothing. Why is this happening? Let’s figure it out.
How does a relationship start?
If a guy and a girl like each other, then their communication at a certain point turns into a horizontal plane, and then into a relationship. Often, the moment when a couple plunged into a relationship goes unnoticed. She likes him, and he likes her. They have flirt, and they understand each other perfectly.
When you ask yourself the question “How to ask a girl to date?”, the situation is fundamentally different. This means that, first of all, you don’t know the girl well enough. Or she didn’t like it very much. After all, otherwise, she would have gone on a date with you and your communication would have developed and continued further.
How romantic to ask a girl to date.
Let’s say you’re doing great with a girl and you know you’re attracted to her. And you have a desire to beautifully, in a romantic setting, invite her to meet. Then it’s a good idea. Moreover, girls love romance and new, unexpected and pleasant emotions.
In this case, you can arrange an unusual date. For example, a romantic dinner on the roof with a view of the evening city. Or a boat trip. In such an environment, you can say sincere and warm words about your feelings for her. The main thing is not to worry at this moment, but to be as calm as possible. But at the same time inspired. If a girl cares about you, she will 100% appreciate this act and respond with consent to the “official” offer to meet.
How NOT to suggest dating.
The best option is not to rush. Instead of the question-topic of this article, first try to establish close communication with the girl. After the first intimacy, most ladies already believe that the relationship has already begun. Some people may ask and clarify what exactly is going on between you.
If you like a girl, you have nothing with her, and you come up, offer to date — with a 99% chance she will refuse you. And why should she agree when she hardly knows you?
In any case, you should already feel that your friend likes you very much, and she wants to spend more time with you. Otherwise, you should not offer to meet.
If a girl says she’ll think about it.
Most likely-this is a refusal in a polite form. Simply put, it drains you. After all, if she really likes you, then she will never say what she thinks, but will answer in the affirmative.
In this situation, do not let the lady fool you and feed you breakfast. If you see her acting distant and vague, I would advise you to stop trying to woo her. You will waste a lot of time, effort, and money.
There are a lot of girls who will immediately appreciate you and you will quickly develop a relationship. Don’t get hung up on one if you can’t get along with it. Remember that there are no irreplaceable ones.
You do not need to offer to meet in the VK correspondence.
If you are asking yourself this question, there are two possible options. Or you are afraid of the girl and are shy to communicate with her. Or it is far away from you (in another city or country). In both cases, it is better not to ask about this in the VK correspondence. These things are always done live. You should not write to a girl in the VK about your feelings. In the event that you want to express them, you definitely need to do it on a date. When you look a girl in the eye. This will cause completely different emotions in her. And you better understand her reaction.
What to do if the girl HERSELF suggested dating.
Well, it’s easy here. Or you like her. In this case, you say yes and ask her out on a date. Or you don’t like her. In this case, do not tell her directly about it. Adopt the same feminine technique: say what you think. And in the future, react sluggishly to her attempts to communicate with you. If she does not understand the hints, only then can you refuse. Tell me you don’t want a relationship.
That’s all there is to it.
Now you know how to beautifully invite a girl to meet and what you need to do so that she does not refuse. And whether it is worth doing at all: -) . Good luck!