Communication with a girl on a frank topic.
You can’t start a conversation by talking about sex or hinting at it. If you use a joke about sex as a seed, then the chances of trying to make fun of something else in the future will be reduced to a minimum. Achieve mutual understanding with the girl. Make sense of her moral values and echo them back to the girl. When the language of her body movements becomes more friendly and open, move on to conversations on a sexual topic.
Tell us about an incident in the life of your friends and watch her reaction. In this matter, you need sensitivity, not arrogance. You seem to be trying to go beyond what is allowed and force the girl to overcome the taboo. It is for this reason that it is very effective to cite cases from someone’s life. You can, almost without risking anything, talk to a girl about the genre of “nude” in the visual arts, without making her feel uncomfortable because she began to get excited from the hidden eroticism of the topic of conversation. After all, you are only discussing one of the trends in the visual arts.
Most women will be slightly shocked when you first touch on the topic of sex in a conversation. For them, this is a natural “subconscious” reaction, and not a reflection of true feelings. If you do not feel uncomfortable, then the goal is almost achieved (in other words, she gives you a hint with all her behavior), do not back down. Continue to develop the topic without false modesty, and a positive reaction from her side will not take long to wait.
Of course, there are exceptions to the rule, but if you have correctly evaluated the girl from the very beginning, you will surely distinguish whether she is really shocked by your indecent conversations or is in some indecision, if not intrigued.
With the help of a conversation on sexual topics, it is easy to move from a conversation to a rapprochement. Just once bring up the topic of intimate relationships in a conversation, and she will be forced to think about sex with you. If she sees this idea as pleasant or entertaining, she will start to agree.
A conversation about sex can lead to a great topic for discussion: sexual fantasies and whims. The essence of the above is the assessment of the girl, and, hopefully, the correct understanding of what she really values in a man.
Some women — fortunately! — all I want is violent and passionate sex.” Who knows, perhaps the young man of the girl is not able to satisfy her; or she is very vicious; or her sexual hunger has reached its peak and she wants to give herself completely to the power of unbridled passions for once in her life. Motives play no role: the end justifies the means.
Let’s say you started a conversation on a sexual topic with a story about an incident in the life of your “friend”, and the girl’s reaction was positive. Of course, you can immediately move to rapprochement, but this requires feelings, and in this case it is better to throw her a fantasy. Casually mention that your friend likes to enter into intimate relationships only because she is free to do anything, without fear of being judged by her boyfriend.
Watch the girl’s reaction. Is she saddened by your story, or did she seem to take it positively? If the girl smiles at this or touches you, then mention in passing about one well-known couple in love, where a woman can not get all that she wants, because of the fear of asking for a partner. In a sincere sexual relationship, this cannot happen just because it is all about experimenting with fantasies and then expressing them through actions.
[By talking “about nothing”, a man risks turning from an attractive stranger into an annoying bore in 10-15 minutes of communication. The ability to easily and naturally translate a conversation with a charming stranger from the secular channel to the world of sexual desires is a necessary quality of a successful seducer. At the practical pick-up trainings of the Dating Academy with the use of special equipment, you will learn in real conditions how to direct the thoughts and desires of your new friend in the direction you need.]
If the girl agrees with you, then the reaction will not take long. It’s time for action! Begin to be interested in her hidden intimate desires, for example: sexual positions, group sex, threesome sex. The main thing is not to overdo it with your personal fantasies. Listen carefully to all her innermost desires and then put them into action.